How it works
A date, not a conversation that might become one.
Every dating app hands you a chat window and wishes you luck. DateSMP builds you somewhere to go instead.
Before the date
Sort it out in the app.
The part every other dating app stops at. It is over quickly.
- 1
Create an account
Email, a name, a photo, a town, a line about yourself. Two minutes.
- 2
Match
A deck of other adults, filtered by what you are each after. Like each other and a conversation opens.
- 3
Agree a time
One of you asks the other out and picks when. Choosing activities is optional, up to six in order, or leave it to Presenter Mode.
Getting there
Open the Date Room, join the server.
Then stop doing things. The rest happens on its own.
- 4
Open the Date Room
It shows you both as your Minecraft characters, says what is happening, and handles the mic.
- 5
Join the server
play.datesmp.com, like any other. Java and Bedrock, same address.
- 6
Get routed in
The server moves you both into a private world. No code, no command, no invite.
The evening
Play, then decide what happens next.
The server runs it. You just turn up.
- 7
Play
It sets each activity up, runs it, keeps score where there is one, and moves you on.
- 8
Head back, or leave
Return to the Date Resort together, or either of you can leave at any point.
- 9
Say how it went
Two private questions afterwards. The other person never sees your answers.
What you actually do
Twenty activities. Fifteen cooperative, five with a winner.
Each one is a small built world the server sets up and runs. Tap any of them.
Before you start
What you need
To be 18 or over
DateSMP is strictly for adults aged 18 and over.
Minecraft, either edition
Java or Bedrock, one address. Your own lawful copy.
A microphone, optional
Voice is never required. Plenty of good evenings happen in text.
